“What’s your morning routine like, Emma?”
This is a question I get asked a lot! As we enter a new season of school, work, and seemingly endless tasks, I want to share what happens on a typical Emma Lovewell morning. Scroll below and click the links for the full experience.
1. No Phone
No phones while waking up! While my phone is critical to message teammates, family, and friends, I find waking up to a flood of notifications and unread emails is counterproductive to getting a good headstart. Taking the first few minutes of the day to ground yourself is important, and I think my no-phone policy is especially helpful. We don’t need extra diversions from distracting us from the get-go.
2. Jot Down 3 Things You Are Grateful For
Demonstrating gratitude for the things you have gives you the proper mindset of tackling the day with joy. Reminding yourself the privileges you have puts things into context. Did you have a bad day yesterday? Or is there a mountain of tasks to complete this week? Yes: acknowledge them! But also acknowledge what you do have. Remember, what you focus on is what you get. We want to think in abundance, not scarcity.
3. Brainstorm 1 Goal for the Day
Goal-setting has always been important to me. I’ve come to realize that each day is critical, so don’t waste it! I like to brainstorm at least one goal for my day, whether it’s something tangible (e.g. tidying up my home) or mental (e.g. giving myself some slack). What immediate or lofty goals do you have?
4. Stretch and Move
This may seem obvious, but stretch and move! Stretching has been shown to promote healthy blood and lymphatic circulation, two things key to a healthy body and mind. Whether you start your day with a yoga practice, strength work, or cardio, movement promotes a clear mind. Personally, on a day when I’m not teaching class I like to do a few stretches, and then get into 10-20 min of strength work.
5. Drink a Glass of Water
Water increases circulation and flushes whatever was laying stagnant in your body. Water also wakes me up, so it’s definitely something I reach for after getting out of bed! Sometimes I add freshly-squeezed lemon juice for an added kick. Use any cup that speaks to you too!
6. Journal
I’ve been journalling for a while now. I remember when I was little I would journal all the time, mostly about how mad I was at my parents or my brother (ha!). As an adult, journalling allows me to set my priorities for the day while also getting out any thoughts running around in my head. It’s a great electronic-independent way to remind myself what I need to get done for the day and a great way to get my feelings out on paper instead of bottling them up.
7. Meditate
Growing up, meditation was huge in my family. My mom, a Buddhist, has done many silent meditation retreats (even while pregnant with me!). I think this is how I learned how to sit with my emotions and to breath through them. Again, the worst thing you can do is wake up with bottled up feelings. Those emotions may inadvertently reveal itself in your daily tasks. I needed this before and especially now with the world’s uncertainty. I don’t always make time for meditation in the morning, but I try to sneak it in at some point during my day. (Yes, even 10 minutes is enough!)
8. Eat a Healthy Meal
Now I’m hungry! Having a well-balanced diet is critical to feeling well physically and mentally. I really love matcha lattes or iced cold brew (with cold brew cubes- check out my hack here). Having a rounded meal grounds me and sets me up for the day. Check out my recent breakfast sandwich recipe for inspiration and previous recipes on the blog!
Other things I do in the morning include checking up on my garden and enjoying quality time with Kimchi, my cat. Even though I only spend a few minutes on each of these tasks, they absolutely get me ready for the day. Don’t feel like translating this routine into a checklist- that might be counterintuitive to making an organic routine! Instead try to incorporate aspects of this into your life slowly. What are your favorite morning routine options? Let me know!
I loved this post Emma! I’ve been cutting ties with my phone as well and noticed it has made such a difference. I started charging it in a different part of my room out of reach from my bed overnight, and I’ve woken up feeling relieved to have some space for myself instead of diving straight into my phone. Trying new coffee drinks (adding pumpkin spice to my daily coffee!!!!) is always one of my favorite parts of my morning routine. Loved your point on journaling in the morning – trying to get into this as well!
Starting the no phone strategy followed by gratitude and goal tomorrow morning!!!
This sounds like it could really make a difference in my emotional and mental day.
Love the idea of not reaching for the phone first thing in the AM but I use my phone as an alarm to wake me up…..so not sure what to do there??? Maybe I’ll get an old fashioned alarm clock!
I love your cat Emma…..he looks exactly like my Russian Blue named Mookie (yes I’m from Boston). I adopted him 3 years ago and he’s just the best!
Since I have to be at work early and I have a long commute, I like to start my day with a workout, followed by a protein shake, getting ready, and a yummy breakfast. I find that the workout helps me to just take time for myself and to also get me energized for the upcoming day. I tend to use my commute both to and from work to reflect on what my goals are for the day and to process anything I may be feeling based on that day. Plus it helps to listen to some good music or get in a phone call with my sister or mom. Then when I get home I’m ready to focus on spending time with my daughters and husband. I work in the education and mental health field, so I’m a big fan of mindfulness and developing some good coping strategies. =)